Dating a gay
As a result, straight guys often gab with us about the stuff girls do that cost them a call back.This article may be in violation of bro code, but I’m going to share some intel anyway. According to a University of Maryland study, women utter more words per day—about 20,000 to men’s 7,000.He told me my friend was a bad listener, interrupted him a lot and he couldn’t a word in. Ask open-ended questions and when all else fails try, “tell me more about that.” It works like a charm.You might not think guys notice the little things, but most do.Consider yourself warned: gross generalizations will be made. Listen, it’s not your fault you developed language and reading skills faster than us, but if you want a text back after your next date, try listening more and talking less.One time, I ran into one of my girlfriend’s dates, and I asked him why he didn’t text my friend back.As her best friend, it's understandable that you want what's best for her, but leave his sexuality out of it. It doesn't mean that they're gay; they are naturally more sensitive, understanding and in tune with emotions. And even if you talked with her, it doesn't mean she would listen to you.If your friend and her boyfriend are thinking about moving in together or talking marriage, ask her why she thinks he's a good fit for her, what qualities she loves about him, if and why he makes her happy, if he respects her, treats her well, etc. Sometimes we have to step back to let people decide what's best for them through experience. Be happy for her, and support her in her relationship.
If your answer falls into this category, then trust that your friend knows this guy better than you and that your "feeling" is no reason to potentially cause strife in her relationship.It’s true with relationships, and generally, I find also true with life.So, for the sake of not overcomplicating things or reinventing the wheel…I’m here to tell you that finding a mate is far more simple than you probably think it is.Take a recent statistic like this for example: did you know that a whopping 88% of all single gay men are actively searching for a romantic partner?That means there are more of you who are commitment-minded than who aren’t. The solution to that is less complicated than you might think too, and mostly it has to do with not being afraid to break out of your social circle and meet new people, not with anything that’s specifically “wrong” or “lacking” about you.